Ladies, this one is for you! We're talking about men; we're talking about your man!
You know men, they need formulas and systems to feel really good, right? They have something call the left anterior parietal lobe-- say that 10x as fast you can! We have that too, but theirs, theirs is twice as big as ours.
The function of that part of the brain is that it's the technical part, so it's fixing the blender, it's tinkering around with a computer. It's the technical aspects of what the brain in a man loves.
The reason this is so important to pay attention to is that that part of their brain, when it's stimulated, releases testosterone. Why do I care if my husband is releasing testosterone Robyn? Or my boyfriend or my partner?
Let me tell you: when he has a steady flow of testosterone, his stress is lower which means he is primed to connect with you-- that's right! He's open to it, he's open to receive and he's open to give.
So I'm going to give you three things that you can stay to your partner that will help release that testosterone and prime him for connection. So the next time he's talking and takes just a moment of a break, I want you to jump in and say one of these three things:
- "That makes total sense." His brain will love that.
- "What a great idea, I never thought of that!" Again, you're just priming him, you'll almost see his chest puff up and be like yeah!
- "You're right!" This is something that men do not hear enough, so maybe don't sound so surprised when you say it!
Anyway there's three things that you can start doing today and if this just doesn't feel natural for you or you really struggle with this, call me! Call me today!
This is what I help couples and individuals do on a daily basis. Learning how to shift your language just a tad, so that you create more opportunities to connect with your partner.
Call me today! Alright, thanks so much for watching and I'll see you next time!