Today I am giving you something that you and your partner can do to reconnect.
So many times I have couples walk into my office saying, "I just don't know how to connect with my partner," "I don't know how to make them feel special," or "I need to feel special and I don't know how to tell my partner to do this without hurting their feelings or starting a fight."
So, I have a question that each of you can ask one another at least once a week. And it can be any version of this, but the question is,
"What is one thing that I could do today that would take our relationship to a 10?"
One thing! And what this does, is it gets your partner thinking about:
- Things that you do well in the relationship, because you obviously want to do more of that
- It also gives your partner an opportunity to talk about what they need. Often times we don't either feel comfortable doing this or maybe we just don't know how to ask for what we need.
So, there you have it, it's that simple. Ask your partner AND having your partner ask you, "What's one thing I can do today to get our relationship to a 10?" See what happens.
And if this is something that you struggle with, even getting to that question-- I want to hear from you! It is my goal to get couples all over the world to just connect, to start enjoying one another.
Life is too short to be in a relationship that you don't enjoy-- that's not EPIC! So, there you have it, ask your partner this question. Have them ask you this question.
And thanks for watching! I'll see you guys next time, buh-bye!